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writes:Me and this guy goes to university together, he is in some of my classes, and recently we got closer. we been flirting and stuff, and one time we went clubbing together and we kissed and spent the night together, but we didnt do anything else apart from kissing. He hasnt text me or contact me in any sort of ways, we still see each other in classes and flirt. But that is about it, we only talk and flirt whenever we see each other,usually we will chill when i asked,that night seems it never happened. What should i do? I think i like him. Thanks so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, this guy is also very busy at the moment with his full time job, full time university and his boy mates. So i think that also doesnt help the situation. Just last night, when i was chilling with one of his best friends, and his best friend asked me what is going on between us, and would i want to have something more out of it, so i told him yes, and asked him wht did that guy say about this situation? And he told me he said he doesnt really know that is about it. What does this mean? I was planning on making the 1st move anyways, but then due to he is really busy and always with his mates, so i don't know to use what excuse and what kinda of tone throught text to do this. I really need help. Thank you so much guys!!xxx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 October 2008):
Well that is the standard thing to do after a one night thing that meant nothing - you enjoy it but don't bring it up again so you can continue your friendship.
Ask him to go for a drink with you again and then tell him how you feel after a couple of drinks.
It will either go well or he'll tell you he doesn't want a relationship blah blah blah. At that point you have to walk away because it will be very easy for you to start sleeping with him hoping he'll like you, and just get really hurt because he doesn't.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, chichick  +, writes (24 October 2008):
 Well, maybe he is just shy, doesnt know how to approach you after its happendif you say you guys were close this could just be that he is just as scared as you are, its not very likely that he doedn't like you.
Why don't you just ask him. Talk to him and see what he thinks about all of this. Maybe he needs you to make the first move try it let us know! Good luck :)
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reader, bubblygirl  +, writes (24 October 2008):
I know you might not like to hear this, but it sounds like he is using you for attention. The flirting, kissing, texting sounds like he wants someone there, but with no strings attached, you know what i mean? It sounds like he wants a good time from someone without responsibility.
Sorta sounds like trouble....I would be very careful!
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