A
male
age
30-35,
*katenatl
writes:I am 18/male/A-town and I know a really attractive, cool, mature, and even cute/sexy (20/female/SD) that i would not mind kickin it with for a while whether it is day or night. I could care less what people think about us but there is only one problem about that which is why i sometimes think i am slightly insane about her or insane period. lol often times we listen to Lost by lil wayne and gorilla zoe and we note to each other "Wow i really am losing it" haha but anyways... I really want to know if the love that i have for this wonderful girl is wrong because she is one of my close friends (for about 2 yrs me and him been close). I told her that i would definitely wife her but i felt like that was even overboard to tell her knowing that she also loves me. she often asks me how i lover her para examplar: as a friend or actually being in love with her. and honestly idk what to say so as a reaction i tell her that i love her as a homie. And i really just dont know how i can make it where we can continue to kick it and cuddle (yes i also forgot to mention that me and her have cuddled-just something cute and close nothing out of hand) or just have fun when we hang out like i do my niggas- only reason why i would like for us to chill like that is because she is one of my close friend's sister. but overall I lover her, she loves me, and we like to laugh and kick it but how can i maintain this relationship so i wont come to romantic and all that towards her (but sometimes it is necessary that we get like that because we play flirt a lot)? and if we did become lovers would that be wrong, how should me and my home girl take this situation?p.s. she actually even likes it when make her giggle and laugh. and thinks it is cute when i express myself to her, which i think is best to stop so she wont think im tryna wife her because i really only want to be friends, but at the sametime have the mindstate of whatever happens... happens.please reply thanks :)
View related questions:
flirt, period Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, GuardianAngel  +, writes (24 October 2008):
 Hi I am Guardian Angel I read you question and didn't really understand it because I can't see what the problem is with you flirting with this is but if it is because she is one of your friends sisters that doesn't matter one little bit it's up to you and this girl what happens and if you love each other then be happy together by the sounds of it you really like this girl and she likes you I'd say GO FOR IT before she finds someone else and you will definately REGRET IT!!
Best Of Luck
Guardian Angel
p.s Need Anything else just holla at me PEACE OUT!!
|
