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*anda
writes:help! my ex boyfriend stole from me 2 times and they where very valuble things to me.the first time i gave him another chance,thn he did it again,so i ended are 8mth relationship changed my number and reported it to the police.its been 2mth now and he wont leave it at tht he constantly ringing,txting my family,saying sorry and tht he loves me,last wk i decided to open one of the letters he had sent me,and gave him a call,now i dont now wht to do,he stole frm me to pay a dept owed to his auntie and deeply regrets it and cant live with him self for wht he has done,he constantly cries on the phone and says he wants to take his own life has he cant live without me.i really love this guy but hate him for wht he has done to me.my family hate him and would neva speak to me if i took him back,i am very confused and dont know wht to do,is it love or his he messing with my head.he has had a bad childhood,and has had a drug and drink problem in the past.plz reply.
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reader, randa +, writes (25 October 2008):
randa is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx guys,i really needed tht nice to hear other ppls point of view who aint related or friends,any suggestions on how 2 get ova him?and will the pain eva go away,previous break ups av been fine but this one really hurts.x
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (24 October 2008):
 Oh the story of wah wah wah I had a drink and drug problem I'm so sorry I want to kill myself, I had a bad childhood, blah blah blah. He is playing mind games with you. He knows that you are a sympathetic person, and is preying on that, hoping you will take him back. You're lucky he didn't steal your identity. He's probably planning on doing that next, after his sob story works out for him. Let him go.
There are plenty of people out there who had horrible childhoods, but you don't see them stealing from the people they love. He's trying to use you.
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reader, for_a_reason +, writes (24 October 2008):
 He sounds seriously messed up. I'd listen to your family and cut off all contact with him - what he did was completely unforgiveable no matter what he used the money for. Telling you that he wants to take his own life is emotional blackmail - don't fall for it, this guys isn't worth it.
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