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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:my two friends have started not getting along at all. one friend (lets call her A) has started going out with B's (my other friend) ex bf. B is with someone else but still winds A up by meeting with A's bf (her ex).i dont want to take sides, but then i dont agree with what B is doing. B's bf is feeling unloved because of B meeting up with her ex alot. how do i aproach this matter if at all?its hard for me to work out what to do when i know these people so well, and when i am involvedthanksxx
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reader, for_a_reason +, writes (24 October 2008):
 Drama, drama, drama. In my experience it's best to stay out of these sorts of arguments, no matter who's side you'd prefer to take - it only ends in tears.
In my opinion - both girls are in the wrong. I thought it was the cardinal rule of friendship that friend do not get together with other friend's exes. So right there, A is in the wrong. But similarly, as you said, B's involvement and teasing isn't very nice either.
I'd advise that you stay out of it - hang around with some other friends whilst they battle it out. Eventually it'll all blow over and they'll wonder why they let a stupid boy come between them!
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