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writes:I had unprotected sex about 3 days ago (Oct 21) and I start my period at the end of the month. So anyday now it should come. Anyhow, He said that he didnt come in me during sex but I am sure that he lied because he did jurk some and couldnt get up right away, and later on said that it was great. Do many guys lie about comming? Earlier today i noticed some blood on some bathroom tissue and i felt mild cramping so thinking it was my period i put in a tampon, about 8 tonight i chanced it and there was very little blood on there, and it was a brown/light red hue. I dont feel the cramping anymore. I do know that sometimes that this happends before i start my intional period and sometimes i dont. I am confused right now......and to give this another note. That night he enjoyed and yesterday i ticked him of,f so he told me today that he didnt come in me. Please let me know what you think.....Signed aggravated and confused...
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reader, Skyking1 +, writes (12 March 2017):
In a word, yes. Filling a vagina with semen is a powerful drive men simply cannot resist. A married woman I was seeing had (no condom) sex with me. I was so excited I told her to stop and hold perfectly still under me. I planned to cool down but after about five seconds, I let go with about a half a dozen squirts while I was bottomed out inside her. After I laid on her about 30 seconds, I told her we could start again. About 15 minutes later, I could feel that twitch, warning me I was about to cum. I pulled our in time to ejaculate a second, large load but this time on her washboard flat stomach. She got up to go wash off and a rope of cum came out of her on the carpet. She ask me if I came in her and I said, no". I told her she was just very wet. Wow! I did not plan to do that either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008): the short answer is yes (i have twice in my life, once I has no sleep the night b4 & she was horny but had 2 go 2 work inthe morning, another time I just wasn't into the girl & faked it so I could go) but the longer answer is get tested (4 prenancy).
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (24 October 2008):
 Sorry Fade, but again we disagree. I appreciate that you're trying to tell the poster that she might be pregnant even if the boyfriend just had what we call "pre-ejaculation", and that is right. But, being a man, there's never been a time when I have an orgasm and I don't ejaculate, at least a little. It's true that orgasm and ejaculation are separate events, but maybe by a split millisecond.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2008): Like my fellow anon below stated, there are signs of impending orgasm and you would have had the tell-tale leakage afterwards if he had ejaculated. You should know if he did. Since you aren't sure, we can't be sure either. Maybe he did and is afraid to tell you because you're freaked out about it. It is a bit unusual for a guy to stop having sex before he finishes. If you didn't want him to unload inside you, why not make him wear a condom or at the very least pull out?
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (24 October 2008):
If he had an orgasm, he ejaculated, and he knows it. I think he's trying to take it easy. Wait to see if you have your period, and that should relieve your concerns about being pregnant.
I also suggest that you use contraception next time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2008): I once asked my wife if she could feel when I have an orgasm. She explained that she knew when I was close because my penis would get larger (then there are the other outward signs of impending orgasm like quickening of breaths, faster thrusting, intensified moaning, etc). But she also said that she could feel the twitching of my penis as I reached my orgasm and could also feel the semen as I ejaculated into her. She said that it feels like a rush of warmth as I ejaculated into her.
So since my wife knew all of that took place when I reached orgasm, it would be pretty hard for me lie about whether I did or not. In fact, there were a couple of times when I just stopped without reaching orgasm and she would immediately ask what was wrong.
So I said all that to say - you should have felt SOMETHING if he ejaculated into you. You might not have gotten everything, but you would have felt something. Jerking doesn't mean anything. I jerk when I have dry orgasms that mimick wet ones. So...
Take a test it you're not sure. And stop having unprotected sex if pregnancy isn't wanted.
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reader, Boredatwork  +, writes (24 October 2008):
 It dosnt matter if he came in you or not, you can still get pegnant form it, you should always use some form of protection to avoid pregnancy.
If he got the the point of no return he may have cum accidentially, and not wanted to scare you by telling you. But if he did you would have noticed it after (it has to come out somehow afterall).
If your worried you may be preg goto the doctors and get checked (althouth i believe its to early to tell yet, so you will need to wait a bit) the morning after pill is effective 3 days after sex, so i fear it may be to late for you to take this now.
but to answer your question, Yes I have lied in the past about cumming, so i doubt its that uncommon.
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