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Why do I still feel uncomfortable telling people I'm gay?

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Question - (24 October 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2008)
A male South Africa age 30-35, *ack_McVeigh writes:

I am gay and have a boyfriend of about 2 and a half years now, and we are moving in together. my friends and family know, but why do i still feel uncomfortable telling people that i'm gay?

thanx.

jpmcveigh

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008):

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Don't volunteer your personal life, you wouldn't say to people Hi im heterosexual would you? If you are asked then tell them if you wish, but don't be ashamed of the truth. You wernt born to be judged and condemned you were born to live and love, and if you love another man then you are loving. We heterosexuals that judge homosexuals are hypocrites that often sit in secret at the pornography movies, we swing, we do bondage, we are sadists, we are prudes, we vouyer,we are into anal sex, WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE YOU? we are the ones that secretly hide our perverse sexual fantasies. Sex is sex and Love is Love. Never feel shame just be YOU and remember that person who calls you may well like WATCHING or getting his nipples clamped while wearing his dogs lead and wifes knickers! LIVE AND LET LIVE.

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A female reader, weirdgirl93 United Kingdom +, writes (25 October 2008):

weirdgirl93 agony auntits okay

i think its because its still considered weird by somepeople or because you might have a had a bit of stick when you came out to people so your scared that might happen again. i know i go through the same thing but i'm bisexaul...

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