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*yaserin
writes:Me and my ex-boyfriend has been apart for nearly 2 months and I figured since i was happy enough (meaning not as frantic or depressed as I used to) that I could break the ice and call him. So tonight I finally called him. It actually went very unexpected! i thought he was going to grill me and ask me questions about the past and stuff but I was wrong! I don't know if this is a key hint or not but he asked me if it was true and I said what's true? This is when he said my best friend was telling him stuff like i'm into someone else and what not. I told him that it wasn't true, (because i'm still into him but I didn't tell him that) Sense I had a bad cough from my previous illness I was coughing constantly on the phone and he got worried asking me to check it out. Next he laughed at all my jokes just like we used to and felt terrible when I said my friend wouldn't talk to me on the phone. When I asked him where to meet me at break, he was ok with it (which really surprised me) and said he'd go! He was on myspace when I called him and so he was hardly speaking diretly to ME but I didn't say anything, just because I wanted to keep it on the down low keeping it safe. He notices his ignorance, and says sorry and starts talking to me. I was like "wow.....he actually caught himself just now" When I said a joke about him under my breath not meaning it for him to hear, he constantly "begs" what I said until he got me to say it! By public opinion for this conversation, do you think he's still into me?
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reader, Kyaserin +, writes (24 October 2008):
Kyaserin is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks so much for the excellent advice it was really good!
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reader, jabey  +, writes (24 October 2008):
i think girl you have done a grand job. You left the guy alone and gave him space , then 2 months later you have called him, and acted normal and friendly. This means he will sense there is no pressure from you and he will relax around you, also he has had time to miss you and realise you have got on with life, all good stuff, pat on the back for you.
It sounds yes you have a very good chance of re kindling as long as you are prepared to take it slow. For now relax and continus the friendship, respond nicely and friendly to him when he contacts you. Try hard to allow him to come to you as much as possible, as if you start contacting him all the time now he will feel pressure and run off again. If you remain upbeat happy and keep a full life, he will sense you no longer have this desperate need for him and this will draw himto you. Kepp cool and keep up what you are doing and Im sure there is a high chance you two will re kindle something, good on you xxx
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