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writes: There this annoying girl whos adopted and goes to my school. She makes up fake rumors about me and my friends. One day she came up to me asking if my parents are getting divorced (they're fighting a lot lately but they never mention a divorce.) I got mad, told her no, that she mind her business and (this may make sound a bitch) that her real mom didnt want her. She end up crying in the bathroom (drama queen). Any ideas?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (24 October 2008):
The first thing that you say about her that she's adopted, and then you are horrible to her about that. I bet everyone else is horrible to her about it as well.
Have you thought that she might not like being bullied by everyone about this all the time?
And so she is being horrible because everyone else is being horrible to her so it's a defence mechanism.
You have NO idea how hard it is to go through being told you are adopted yet you chose to make her cry and then accuse her of being a drama queen?!?! Take a look in the mirror if you want to find out why she's making up rumours.
If you were a bit nicer to her then she probably wouldn't make things up about you. I bet she doesn't do it to her friends.
Good Luck!! xx
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