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Does his behaviour mean he's afraid of me knowing how he really feels?

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Question - (24 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 October 2008)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, so I have a problem. I really like this guy, he's a bit older, he's married, and I know that I never, ever have a chance with him, just let's get that straight, I'm not looking to be with him AT ALL.

The problem is that he has flirted in the past, saying things that couldn't even be taken as just a friendly comment. One day he might spend all the time that we have near to each other with me and my pals, the next day he'll only say hi and then he'll walk away, and then the next day he'll completely ignore me, even if I've just walked into the same room as him.

I've read online that sometimes if a bloke ignores you at weird times, it can mean that he's scared that you'll see how he feels, or that he's nervous to talk to you or something else like that.

My question is, do any of you have any reasons for this weird behaviour? Is it worth bothering about? Do you agree that maybe it's because he's afraid/nervous?Thanks, and please just remember - I'm not trying to take the bloke away from his wife or anything, just wanting to find out what some uninvolved folk think.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2008):

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Just so you know, the age on my question is wrong. Age is actually 20. Thanks.

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