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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:He always smiles when he's around me. He teases me a lot, but in a nice way. He comes up to me and talks to me now, which he never used to do (or at least not as often - I usually had to start the conversation). But I'm still unsure if he likes me, for a few good reasons:1) He has a lot of girls who are friends, and there are plenty of girls who like him so why me?2) Yesterday when I said hello, he gave me a weird look. I couldn't really identify it, but it was something like "Leave me alone" or "Why are you talking to me?" He seemed annoyed, but I can't see how I could have caused that. *shrugs* 3) There were certain "incidents" last year when we were friends. I was consumed by depression (been O.K. for 4 months now) and we had a big fight. He almost dropped me for good.4) He apparently is getting over some girl. My friend, who used to be friends with him, said it was one of her friends but wouldn't tell me who. I had considered that it might be me, but I just don't see how he could like me in the first place.5) He's cute. I mean, I have plenty of self-esteem (I'm nice and have a mostly good body), but I'm not THAT confident. I mean cute guy plus girl with bad acne doesn't add up in my equation.Please answer. Help a slightly paranoid girl with overactive hormones.
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reader, Cowboy  +, writes (25 October 2008):
Sounds to me like he likes you, and why shouldn't he?
He knows lots of girls, but there is something about you that makes him like you more than them. It could be anything, he probably doesn't even know himself, but something about you has attracted him. Is that really so difficult to believe?
I wouldn't think the acne would put him off too much.
I was seeing a girl for a while who had pretty bad acne scars on her cheeks, but they didn't bother me one little bit.
Men aren't always as shallow as we're made out to be.
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