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writes:Hey I need help. I know that this is going to be kinda confusing but keep in mind I'm really confused anyway. I love my boyfriend to death... or at least I did when we started going out. Please don't think bad of me, but we hadn't gone out for a while, and I had an affair with another guy. Well, I was about to break up with him - until he texted me saying that he had been raped. I couldn't believe myself - I wasn't, and am still not there for him when he needs me most. I don't want to break up with him - I do love him, but I know I love the other one more...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Just cuz he got raped doesn't mean you guys still have to go out... Who knows, maybe he is as uncomfortable with this as you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2008): you need to really listen to your heart. dont lie to urself. You might love ur original guy, but mayb not in the way ur supposed to in a relationship.
Think about the past youv had with him...are u ready to throw that away?
but dont let his problems affect ur decision...it may lead u to act due to sympathy.
Just because your moving on, doesnt mean u cant still be around for him, to be a friend. After his ordeal, he'll need some1 to talk to...you can still be that person.
overall...i say listen to ur heart...
Hope u get everythin sorted babe xx
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