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*etright11
writes:So i really like this guy. and im pretty sure he likes me too! like ultra positive he likes me, he shows all the signs.... he gets red in front of me he shows off. he does things to try to make me notice him.i guess im just being a bitch by not noticing him....but i do look at him, but only when he's isnt looking at me, so no he looks me and looks down like i never gonna like him or somehting. i just want to talk to him, or him talk to me. i just dont want to be one of those girls who comes and goes. i want him to make the first move. the problem is i know he isnt, and i just need to know what to do. so guys is there anything that might be stopping him from saying anything to me? im really getting down about this and it makes me feel down in gutter...... i really need help....please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, getright11 +, writes (25 October 2008):
getright11 is verified as being by the original poster of the question The thing is i really want to.... but hes a senior and im not.... i dont want to embaress myself. but today he came into one of my classes so i saw him walking in and looked away, then i looked back at him and i started to smile... he double took on me, and made sure i was smiling and smiled back at me.... i think i made his day by smiling at him. i hope that showed i was also really interested in him as well!
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reader, for_a_reason  +, writes (24 October 2008):
 He sounds shy and uncertain whether you like him or not - sounds like he's attempting to subtly test the waters. So this one's up to you I'm afraid - you're going to have to grow a pair and talk to him. Just take an interest in him, ask him how his day has been etc... what he thinks of such and such a tv programme etc... anything! He'll have to answer and after a few conversations you'll both grow a little bit more confident.
Why do you want him to make the first move? Are you frightened of being shot down? Don't be! I'm sure he'll be flattered and jump at the chance. :)
Good luck honey!
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