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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay. so I've been indecisive for the longest time over this issue and it's really starting to stress me out. I have two ex boyfriends that I really love and I just can't pick between them. Ex #1 and I were together for about 2.5 years. He's my high school sweetheart. We got cutest couple in high school but that is surprising because everyone hated us together. We constantly fought and disagreed and broke up frequently just to get back together in the next few days. He lied to me for five months about kissing a girl and ever since then I just haven't trusted him. He also can't trust me because three seperate times when we broke up I talked to another guy. So. kind of common sense we don't belong together right? yeah that's what I finally realized about 8 months ago and we finally broke up. A bout a month after we broke up is where Ex#2 comes in. We had been friends for awhile but we suddenly started talking a lot more and talking lead into dating and then we were officcially together. I was so happy when I was wiih him because I never had to worry about anything. He is the perfect guy. Doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, plays a sport at my school, saving his virginity til marriage, very smart, and is going somewhere in life. He is definately a guy I know I could be with forever. He lives about an hour and a half away. I know he would be the obvious better choice but something holds me back. I always seem to have second thoughts with him. We only lasted about four months when I couldn't be with him anymore. I missed ex#1. a lot. And I was starting to get annoyed with ex#2. When we broke up I tried to get back with ex#1 but he still has trust issues with me especially because I got a real new boyfriend. So then I was like well maybe I do still need ex#2 and went back to him. Then ex#1 realized he's ready to try to work things out with me and now I'm stuck. They both are willing to work things out with me but I just don't know which one to choose? My family loves both guys. Please help. is ex#1 a lost cause? is ex#2 just a rebound boy? uggh.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2008): I think that if you want to have a happy healthy relationship then you defenitely need to ditch guy number one...because it doesn't look like it is going anywhere...as for guy number 2 you don't deserve him...he deserves to be with someone who cares about him...and not just be used as a rebound...but going back to guy number 1 you will defenitely regret because all you are doing is wasting your time with him...because the problems in that relationship don't sound solved.
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