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You only pass through this life once right?

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Question - (12 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2008)
A male Canada, anonymous writes:

I'm prudent and calculated. I don't lunge into relationships, I inch into them cautiously; really getting to know the other person. It's always been like this. Can anyone relate?

Maybe I should "lunge" more and not take things so seriously. I mean not ever date has to be a marriage interview. It's just that things get so messy at the end and I always feel like taking things even slower next time would have opened my eyes to trouble around the corner.

So for fear of me becoming a defensive hermit over time...I'd like your thoughts on whether I should be more ummm "reckless"(?). You only pass through this life once right?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008):

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Thank you for that. It was a lovely poem. That you for all your comments.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008):

I like your attitude quite willing to EXPLORE the uncertain for once....try enjoying all the experiences and when you pop out of these experiences, hair a bit ruffled. ( i think thats cute and adventerous) go for the next adventure what ever form it comes in. We may only Pass through life once but full of great stories at the end to put in our book of life. Ever read the poem THE INVITATION?

Be a little reckless and wild and love the experience, feel the blood run through your veins and know you are alive! journey without a map............if you are brave enough! i think you are????????

via con dios!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008):

Yes, we do :)

You've been probably hurt in the past but you can't let past relationships hold you back and make you insecure.. after all they were in the past for a reason.

good luck

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