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Burning questions about guys and your erections!

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Question - (12 November 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey guys,

I really want to know all about erections;

a)How does it actually exactly feel when one has an erection?!

b)What can a woman do to make it feel better?

c)What NOT to do...?

d) Are there different types of erection?

Thanks heaps x

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A male reader, oldfool Australia +, writes (15 November 2008):

oldfool agony auntAn erection gives a very full feeling. If you get a full erection it can ache a little (not intensely) because your penis is straining so hard :)

It feels sensual and sensitive, longing to be touched. And as you get closer to coming it feels very full and ready to burst forth with cum, a very fulfilling feeling.

It should always be handled gently but firmly -- grasping it firmly and pumping it up and down is fine, but no rubbing of the outside skin (feels like chafing). At the moment of coming and after coming it gets sensitive and should be handled very gently.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (15 November 2008):

DoubleM agony auntWell, the description about "intense pain" seems entirely foreign to me. Mine have always been quite a pleasant feeling. An erection offers me a strong feeling of manhood, particularly when I'm with a woman who appreciates it in one way or another. I know that most women derive pleasure from the feeling of a large, firm erection filling their vagina. As a man, great pleasure is derived from doing the filling and feeling the warmth inside her. Isn't it a wonderful mutual purpose? The way that you, as a woman, can make it feel better is to provide a solution to make it go away. LOL

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008):

Well, quite a question!

a)The feeling comes from an initial move or suggestion from your lady, the heart starts thumping, resulting in blood being pumped to the penis, resulting in erection. The feeling then becomes an intense ache in the penis.

b)This intense ache can be offset slightly by the lady caressing and stroking the penis which slightly relieves tension. However, there is an overriding, intense need for more stimulation but;

c)Do not be tempted to go at the erect penis in a rough way. Yes, bend it around, squeeze it hard, bite it gently but just be careful not to be abrasive around the glans (knob!)

d)A guy can be in a horny sort of mood for no reason, so his penis will be semi-hard, ready to fully rise for any possible action. Also, just after sex/ orgasm, it may well be semi-hard and seemingly ready for more, but at this stage, just needs gentle handling/ kissing.

Phew - I feel a bit horny myself after that description!

Hope that helped answer your question!

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (12 November 2008):

shania agony auntNo dear, there is just one erection, the penis goes straight up when its aroused, simple as that...its not a science.

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