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writes:I am desperate for help my best friend is a girl and I are really close and have helped each other through a lot of stuff. She recently broke up with her boy friend and I supported her through it. Recently they got back togehter which I felt was stupid because of how badly he treats her. Her Nan recently had to go into a care homeand last night she said to me she was staying there for the night and would not have a reception on her phone and would not be able to talk because we talk every day. I found out she was lieing and this has really hurt me and I do not know why she did it. I feel as though she has insulted my intelligence and betrayed our friendship. We have said some very nasty things to each and both said we do not want any more to do with each other. I don't know what to do part of me says I want nothing more to do with her other part of me wants to talk to her though at the moment she is not talking to me. I do not know what to do and am I wrong to be this upset I just don't know what to do please can someone help
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): No you are not wrong to be upset.Sadly its our loved ones who hurt us the most.
In the first place are you very sure that she lied to you.If she wasn't lying she must have felt hurt that you don't trust her.
Friends do fight with each other.They get back too.Give her some time off.After a few days she would definitely remember the love and affection you had for her.This is the moment when you send her a sorry card and patch things up.
Regarding her boyfriend how much ever you feel that he treated her badly,its her decision in the end that matters.
I hope things work out for you.
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