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writes:Okay my boyfriend started fingering me about a week ago. I was just wondering: doesn't he get disgusted? I don't want to make him uncomfortable and it seems kinda gross thinking about the fact that my vaginal juices are on his fingers. How do you think he thinks about it? I, personally, am not uncomfortable with it at all. It makes me really horny and I even give him hand jobs. Speaking of which, whenever I give him a hand job, he pulls my hand away just before he cums. He moans and seems to love it, and when he gets louder and is about to cum he pulls my hand off and rolls away for a little while. I've yet to actually make him cum and it is starting to hurt my feelings. My theory is that maybe he thinks I'll be all grossed out about when he squirts, but I'm not sure. Help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008):
He is probably just shy, when i give my boyfriend a hand job trys to hold it in, but once his cum went everywhere and he was really embarrased about it.
So dont worry, if he seems to love it then you shouldnt be upset. you should jus feel flattered.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008): i had this exact problem so dont worry!
with the fingering dont worry i used to think the same until recently when he told me that he enjoys it.
and its not unusual for him to not want to cum, i've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and he still doesnt want to, he probably is just unsure on how u will react or maybe he just doesnt want to make a mess!
my advise to you is u could try giving head guys normally feel more comfortable cumin that way, or if your not up for that next time u want to give him a hand job get a tissue first, so that he cums in the tissue it should make him more confident.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): he is quite proble shy, and doesnt want to come infront of you, i had this in the verrry earlie days of my sexual acts :)
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reader, kurvy +, writes (12 November 2008):
The only logical reason why I would think he would pull away is that he thinks you would be grossed out if he just came all over your hand. If you want to find the truth, the best thing to do is ask him.
As a guy, I love to finger my girlfriend and it makes the relationship much more interesting & intimate. I think it makes the relationship alot stronger too, if you're able to give something up like that. I remember the first time I fingered my girlfriend and it really does turn both partners on. I am pretty sure he is much more focused on giving you an orgasm than the juices on his fingers. It is great to do and should only be done if both are willing though!
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reader, Miss Potter  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 Ask him why he pulls away.
And about fingering i am sure its a huge turn on for him as well as it gets you horny. Just make sure you are clean, you shower everyday and you should be just fine.
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