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writes:Hi, I just met this girl online, I really like her, she has everything I have always wanted in a woman. We are up to the fourth date now, are dates are affectionate, but not over the top, everything still seems ok. Here is the problem, i think i am scaring her away. We spoke on the phone the other night and i lightly brought up the question weather or not she was interested in dating other people, i told her that I wasnt interested in seeing anyone else at this time because I wanted to get to know her. She replied back saying that she wasnt to that point yet and she didnt want to rush into a relationship she wants to get to know me better. I am guessing thats normal but i dont know. Should I be worried I going to lose this one? What can i do not to mess it up?? Reply to this Question
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reader, guy1234 +, writes (12 November 2008):
guy1234 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you! I will take this advice. I'll let you know what happens......lets keep our fingers crossed:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): Be Cool, let her get to know you. And continue getting to know her. Don't pressure her. That will chase her away. Just keep doing what you're doing and be as charming as you possibly can. As they say, actions speak louder than words. So instead of talking about where you want to go from here...show her how much you care by doing awesome things. Treat her like royalty, take an interest in things she's interested in, and so on. Sweep her off her feet!
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): You know what you do just take your time...if she likes you and is just afraid to move quickly explain to her that you will move at her pace....if this is meant to be it will be....so dont rush....remember slow and steady wins the race...show her she can trust you and that you aren't using her or playing with her feelings....well good luck....if this helped at all email me at [email address blocked] tell me wat happened....bye...xoxo...
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