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writes:What does it mean when talking to my husband about our lack of sex, he says there are two types of don't want to? Reply to this Question
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reader, eddie  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 He might mean there are two types....I don't want to do it...period...NO !! Or there is the other way....I don't want to do it but I will for your sake....type of thing. A man usually desires a woman who desires him. As usual in marriage though it's easy to let the spark die out. Then sex becomes routine. Since men generally want sex more than women, men can feel undesirable when they get the impression you're only doing it for their pleasure. (mercy sex) That type of thing can be OK once in a while but if it is that way most often, trouble can brew. A smart woman will do her best to make her man feel desired. If he feels that way he'll walk through fore for his lady.
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reader, jess4gotten  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 I agree with birdynumnums - your husband is best qualified to answer that question. Although....that said, remember he is male. Men rarely say what they mean, mean what they say, or even know what they mean themselves :p
(Okay so maybe you shouldn't take it to heart...but thats what my sister says everytime her husband gets confused.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): My thought was:
1.I don't want to it because I'm not in the mood.
2.I don't want to do it with You!
But you need to ask him to clarify that for you. It's hard to repair a relationship when people talk in riddles! And unfortunately most people do that. So you should try to open the lines of communication.
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (12 November 2008):
I am guessing that the two types of "don't want to" are either:
You don't want to because you aren't in the mood
or
You don't want to because you are angry with him...
I am strictly guessing here, but that's MY best guess. Why not simply ask HIM what he means by the statement?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): He doesnt want to OR really doesnt WANT to...hmmmmmgay?
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