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writes:I'm 43, dating a 53 year old guy for 3 months now, he refers to me as his girl-friend. (but he says he's not ready for a commitment...) Also, I've found him on 3 online dating sites, where he lists himself as single seeking a women/activity partner. I'm confused, how can he say I'm his girl friend, and then turn around and say he's single?????What gives?? Reply to this Question
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (13 November 2008):
 I suspect you are not his significant other, simply his friend that is a girl. But yes, find out if he is still actively on these web sites. If he is, I would exit stage left.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (13 November 2008):
 I agree, find out if they are from before he met you. If he is still looking around then run run run away from him. I made the same mistake and have not been able to let go of a man that went on as friends with benefits for almost 5 years! I may never get over this heartache.
Men seem to know very early on if you are The One for them. Don't waste one more minute on him if he is still on the make.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Ask him what he means by the term "girlfriend." Does he mean a friend that is a girl?
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reader, toddybad  +, writes (13 November 2008):
Firstly, do you know that these internet site profiles arent old ones still hanging around the way things do on the internet? why not ask him? if this is true you should get shot! if he's 53 and not ready for commitment when will he be?
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