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I don't want to have sex but he won't leave me alone!

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Question - (12 November 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i met this guy only like 3 weeks ago. he is 15 and i am 13. he's already had sex before and wants to do it with me. he's not even my boyfriend. he keeps asking me to come to his house and tell him i don't want to. every time he asks me to come over, he insists he won't try anything but he said the same thing to my friend and when she went to his house he tried to get her in bed. help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008):

If he does it again tell someone at school like a teacher, or at least let your parents know. It probably isn't serious but you can never be too careful. Maybe he was seeing someone else who lives on your street.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008):

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Now i'm really scared. i walk home from school and i was almost to my house today and i saw the guy that's been pressuring for sex behind a house across the street. i didn't want him to know where i lived so i walked past my house as if it wasn't mine. i kept walking until he finally gave up on following me. is he trying to stalk me? do think this is a serious problem? please help. im scared =(

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008):

Keep ignoring - he'll get bored eventually.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008):

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he's still not leaving me alone. any advice?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008):

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thanks guys! u were a big help. i told him to back off but he keeps trying to text me. i've been ignoring his texts but i hope he won't try to talk to me at school tomorrow. he'll be all over me!

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A female reader, Nikkii Babyee United Kingdom +, writes (12 November 2008):

Nikkii Babyee agony auntOh My Gosh! dont even think about havin sex with him =O most guys are the same tbh he sounds like the typical player all he wants is to bed you hel not want nefin after! yer 13 chic :) do nottt lose yer virginity to someone like that he just doesnt deserve it =O just stop textin him now and go find someone who is worth yer time and love :)

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A female reader, helpjayne United Kingdom +, writes (12 November 2008):

helpjayne agony aunthe sounds like a user and i bet he hasn't had sex he probably only told you that to make him seem kool. don't be pressured into anything he's obviously not very respectful towards you. if he really won't leave you alone tell him you have a boyfriend or you and your mate just cut him out of your life. ask yourself do you really owe this guy your virginity you've only known him a couple weeks and he deffinatly does not sound worth it don't be made to feel guilty.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008):

Don't trust him. It would be against the law and you're not ready as you have said. Sex is something special that should be between two people in love, and you and this guy clearly aren't! Don't let him win, he sounds like a player so hell soon give up and prey on somebody else (I just hope they say no as well!) You can't use the opposite sex as a toy and what he's doing is wrong.

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A female reader, josy United States +, writes (12 November 2008):

dont u dare have sex with him.

im 15 only 2 years older than u.. but my advise dont

after you have sex with him trust me your going to regret it. hes just gonig to ignore you and find another girl that he loves and not just wants to have sex with.

your no a toy for him to use just cuz maybe ur pretty and young and perhaps a virgin. your better than that :)

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