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Why can't I just move on from the past?

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Question - (12 November 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, *osy writes:

everyone moved on with their lives. i want to do the same. im sick of crying all those nights and listening to music all day. why am i living in my past? why cant i just move on?

btw im not 10 im 15

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A female reader, josy United States +, writes (13 November 2008):

josy is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks guys you helped alot and im just saying this. i think i should move on with my own life but at the same time not think im mving on without them :)

thanks again

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A female reader, helpjayne United Kingdom +, writes (12 November 2008):

helpjayne agony auntiv been there my parents seperated having there own relationships and my siblings living away and not having many friends because they changed into people you don't like it's really hard you must be feeling really lonely maybe you could try talkin to ur mum or dad about this and you should start making more friends. your sad their happy because you should be happy too and you don't deserve to feel lonely because of other peoples life choices try making more friends join clubs at school or be brave and talk to ur old maytes and see why they've changed.

goodluck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008):

Don't fret about your parents as you still have them don't you? They're happy now and this should in turn make you happy - you wouldn't want them to be sad would you? You must miss your brother. Does he intend on coming back? Be patient because I'm sure you'll see him again. Keep in touch online or by phone.

Do the same with your old friends on msn or by phone. Just because they moved away doesn't mean you have to lose them completely.

As for love/making new friends, just make sure you meet new people. Be confident and say hi - there's nothing wrong in that, so they'd be silly to reject you! People are more likely to want to get to know you if you act confident. And as you get to know people, if there is a chemistry between you and one of them it will soon show =]

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A female reader, josy United States +, writes (12 November 2008):

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my mom got remarried

my dad did too

my brother who i grew up with obviously went to the states, uni

my best friend who i grew up with met u new friends when we both moved schools

my other best friend who i used to LOVE changed as we grew up

everyone did and it kills me to see veryone so happy

am i just jelous of them??

i tried making new friends i did at first but that failed

im starting to get all depressed i was never like this i was always the storng confident happy one who people get advises from

whats wrong with me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008):

Tell us a bit about your past because your question is quite vague which makes it harder for us aunts to answer you =]

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