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*ove -stinks
writes:I need some advice, help, ok this really cute, nice, ect. guy in my class has a girlfriend, but i like him and he said he likes me but for some reason everyone thinks i asked him out but i didnt really. I just said if you and your girlfriend ever break up would u ever consider going out with me and he said yes so now everyone thinks i asked him out now everyone is mad at me even his girlfriend and she is my best best friend but she is really mad at me and i dont know what to do.........so someone please help me!!!
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reader, love -stinks +, writes (19 November 2008):
love -stinks is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks 4 the help , but now he said he is gonna break~up wit her wat should i do now?? cuz i really like him!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): 1. you made a mistake by asking him that. you almost broke girl rule #1: dont go after another girl's guy. so your friend has a reason to be mad at you. the only way to fix your friendship is tell her you're really sorry, and you would never want to steal him from her.2. you need to make sure that the guy knows that you didn't ask him out. so tell him nicely, but clearly, that you didn't mean to ask him out, you were just curious. but most of all - fix your friendships with your friend, because even if you did go out with that boy you wouldn't go out forever, and when he's not there for you guess who will be - your best best friend.
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reader, helpjayne  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 get him to back you up on this and explain to the girl and your friends that you would never in a million years ask someone out that was already with someone, or you could tell a little white lie and say you liked this other guy and you were just asking her boyfriends advice if you were datable
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reader, staceyxxx +, writes (12 November 2008):
 i have been though this before it is horrible. the way i handled it is, tell everyone you have got a thing for him but you would never go there because of his girlfriend. these thing happen to everyone, your not the only one you just have to stay strong because weather your friend likes it or not, you and this boy have a clear thing for each other and advencually (sorry for that speling) you both will slip because you can not control your feeling so its better you went about it this way instead of holding back and something even worse happening. so i say stick to your guns you like him he likes you your friend should come around if your friendship are strong you will be fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): You've dug yourself a bit of a hole! It wasn't the wisest thing to say but what's done is done. You need to make it clear that you didn't ask him out, both of you need to explain that. Although you do also need to apologise to your friend for what you said.
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