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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:We were together for months but didnt go out cause he told me he was too busy with school and work. I said that I wasnt going to do it anymore without a proper relationship and he asked me to be his gf. We only went out for a week before he told me that his grades were too low. He kept saying that he doesnt want to lose me and begged me not to go. I told him that its not like we were great friends before and he got upset cause I guess he thought we were. He told me that if someone hurts me or if I ever need him, he will always be there for me.He calls me about once a week just to say hi and see how everything is going. He told me that he really likes talking to me now. He knows that I wont sleep with him anymore so i guess he really does want to remain friends. Now when he calls, i am not so "available" for him. I dont call HIM anymore and when he does, I call him back hours later. Before I always dropped everything for him and was always there. I feel as if he wants me even more now that its not easy for him. Should I keep doing this or is he getting annoyed and will eventually give up? Reply to this Question
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reader, KSnider +, writes (14 November 2008):
In my opinion.... I would move on and find a guy who will appreciate you when he has you. There are so many lovely guys out there to waste your time on a guy that is playing games.
To me it sounds like he just wants you to be his "booty call" when he wants it. And as soon as you start hanging out with him and he has you he isnt going to want you. You will be in the same situation again.
Be strong and dont give in.. I was in a situation like that and kept going back until oneday I had enough.. it was the best thing I did with that relationship!
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