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writes:i have been in a relationship for 4 years now and i love my boyfriend very much and im sure he loves me but a for a very long there has been another man i like, i have liked him before i meet my boyfriend when i was in school. but lately for the past 2 years my boyfriend has become very close friends with this boy i like, he knows some thing is wrong because i act differently around this boy. i love my boyfriend very much but these feelings im having are real and i am worried they are going to mess up a good thing i have but i cant ignore my feeling and it is making me depressed. i am only 18 i no sooner or later we will split once i start to live life and so will he, we have been through alot in the past 4 years that i have i am not happy with and the same with him, just lately things are starting to get really good and just when i think nothing can go wrong these feeling start getting the better of me, i am so confused.please someone give me advice. i know there is someone going through the same as me or even been there and done it, and could give me some pointers before i make a very big mistake.thank you for reading my story.
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reader, helpjayne +, writes (12 November 2008):
 perhaps this is just lust. your boyfriend has loved you for 4 yrs you've lusted after this other guy for a while but who ultimatly do u wana share all the fun experiences with?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): Ok you have a big problem i can see that but you cant just get rid of your feelings like that. If you love him so much then you go for it but if you think to yourself and see that really you think that i might love your boyfriend then stay with him what you have got is something you want so its up to you to make a decsion because when you've done it you have done it so think it through.
Lose what you have got for some one you love more or
stay with what you have got and hope your feelings will go away but if you go for the man but he says no so just think !
I hope it helped!
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reader, Nikkii Babyee +, writes (12 November 2008):
 well yes you said it chic yer only 18 :) sooner or later the likelyhood is yous will break up but if you really feel something for this other guy go for it honestly :) dont take life as if you have all the time in the world! last week my best friend got meningitis and he was intensive care on a ventilator. we really thought the worst was going to happen and we learnt that ya cant take ne advantage of nefin! anything could happen so seriously dont waste time cuz ya never know what could happen :)
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