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writes:(I'm 13) Well basically, I want to make out with my boyfriend and I he wants to make out with me. (He told my best friend because he was hoping my best friend would tell me... which she did) Then he asked me if I would mind if he wanted to make out. I told him I was a little nervous but I wanted to. Anyways, I want to make out with him but I've never made out before, and I don't want to be a bad kisser. I mean, him and I have kissed many times just not made out. Is there any advice you could give me so I'll be less nervous... and possibly a better kisser?Thanks(:
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reader, toddybad  +, writes (13 November 2008):
Yeah, stick to just kissing dont go any further!
you know what the key to being a god kisser is just to do what feels good. dont shove your tongue right in thats the golden rule. just kiss him so it feels gentle and loving. if tongues come into it go nice and slow and just use the tip of your tongue. but really dont worry too much if he didnt like you you wouldnt be kissing him and so hell just be over the moon when that fantastic first kiss happens - its a great moment so put aside your concerns and enjoy the moment!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 I'm assuming that by making out you mean kissing and necking, because at 13, that's about as far as you should go. If you mean making out as in making babies, I wouldn't recommend going that far at your young age. Your body, Your rules. Take you time. The average age for loss of virginity is 17.3 years around the world right now, so you have a few years before worrying about that!
I wouldn't worry too much about how good a kisser you are, you are only as good as your partner and how much you like each other anyways, and if you wind up kissing, then you pretty much like each other. You can open your eyes from time-to-time, but don't keep them open or you will go cross eyed! LOL! Have a few short kisses from one side and then switch over, throw in a few long kisses. If you wind up using a little tongue, don't leave it in there for so long that the other person has to break away in order to catch their breath! Kisses near the ears and nibbling on ear lobes is nice, and a kiss on the neck, or nuzzling, usually makes your partner a bit weak in the knees, so use that one sparingly! Don't suck too hard and leave hickeys - that always seems like a good idea at the time, but no one likes wearing them for a whole week, or having Mom and Dad notice them! Just remember, he wouldn't be kissing you in the first place if he didn't like you. Try NOT to go past this phase for the immediate future, you have plenty of time to grow up, Hunnie!
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