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writes:Hi!I'm a 15-year-old girl who is straight and who loves boys! My sister is a lesbian and she gave me some episodes of the L World to watch last week.I wasn't ok with that coz'i'm not a dyke!!!I watched the show and I loved it!!! Now when I go on Youtube,I watch a lot of lesbian videos....Is it normal? I started to ask me some questions...! I don't have crushes on girls! And two days ago,I was watching tv (i was zapping) when I fell on a lesbian film...so I watched it.What do you think of that? Do I have a problem with my direction?PS:For those who don't know "The L World",it's an american show only with Lesbian Girls.
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reader, Queeny  +, writes (4 June 2008):
 I think you know wat you want.. you say ur straight and even shout that you love boys! that's a good thing (to know wat u want). Your sister is not being considerate here, she is making you do things that you do not like even when you are firm about the issue. honey.. as there are some things we can copy from our older brothers and sisters, there are those which we just can't becoz they are not aplicable to you. she is your sister but you don't have to do wat she does and make her understand that. to tell you the truth, what you are watching about Lesbians and all, this may influence you.. if you didn't like it honey... just don't ... boys are great.. handsome and created different from us so that we can enjoy their natural manhood. that's why they were created with different features from women.. even physically, a man was made to be a protector and a provider and......... men are just great..!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): i think that is fine i do the same thing !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys....It's helping me a lot :)
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 I don't think that normal curiousity or watching shows or videos is an indication that you are gay or bi, it's just normal curiousity. I suspect that you would have had crushes on girls long before now if you were gay, and that you would probably already know! Ask you Sis about when she first knew, that will probably help you relax a bit about your own "direction"! Cheers!
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reader, Deema  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Hi. I don't know too much about homosexuality - other than everyone knows - but it always seems to me that when I hear people speaking about it, they always knew from when they were quite young that they liked their own sex. It didn't ever seem to me that they just became that way after they watched some films or stuff like that. So I think you'd have had an idea before darling. As well as that with your sister being Lesbian, its far more open to you, so you would be far more comfortable looking at that stuff - so what? It really doesn't matter. You're not doing anything wrong, and if its in your house already then whats the big deal. Wait and see how you feel in a few years time, cos you'll start to get lots of feelings about lots of different people, I'm sure, and they will all be normal. Just go with it. Theres nothing wrong whatever you do and whoever you are, so it really doesn't matter. You'll soon know which sex you are more attracted to. Lots of love. xx
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reader, Lovely Sweet Laura +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Just because you are attracted to watching girls together does not make you a lesbian or even necessarily Bi-sexual. Guys like watching them too but they aren't lesbians, haha. But in all seriousness, there is no reason why you should think that just because you enjoy watching them- you are one. I'm a straight female and still enjoy it, hell, I even enjoy seeing two guys together! I think it's more about the feelings and intimacy that are shared between any two lovers that attracts people. Wishing you all the best!
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Although I've never seen the show, I'm familiar with its subject matter. Personally, I think that you are probably too young to know exactly what you like and don't like in a relationship. But, just for the record, there is the "third option" of being bi-sexual.
It seems that (assuming that you've got a good relationship with your sister), you've got an excellent resource to help you in your sister. She might be able to tell you her experiences and maybe that might help you figure out your own orientation. If not, you're more than welcome to continue asking questions here.
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