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writes:i cheated on my boyfriend with his bestfriend and he found out we broke up and he has a new girl its been about a month now but we still talk like we normally did and he still tells me he loves me and we hook up all the time what should i do..?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): oh my god ..thats exaclty what happened to me .i but i technically didnt do anything with my ex best frined i just let him cuddle me and we were broken up then.but ye he has a new girl he talks to and we still hook up.well the thing is that it will never be the same. i mean i would like to thing he would take me back but when i look back i just see why this happened becasue we werent meant to be together and fought all the time,so i think you should be a better person and cut him off before he cuts you off.trust me if he loved you he would have been with you.It is like carrying something that is not yours .no point of it right..might as well drop him..:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): I'm an old woman. What is this "hook up" thing you and this boy are doing? What dose hook up mean?
"Hook up" - Being friends, that's ok, probably unlikely to develop futher, as it will be very difficult for him to forget you cheating with his friend, and plus he now has a new girlfriend who has not treated him like this.
"Hook up" - Having sex/kissing/caresses - He knows you like him, he knows your sorry and he's using your body because you have offered it. Could be done as form of revenge. Unlikely to develop further, because this is evidence that he has lost all respect for you, and now he treats you as he likes.
He might love you, he might even like you, but the problem is two of his most closest people have hurt him. You cheated but to make it worse you cheated with his friend, so probably damaged a friendship. It will be difficult for this boy to ever trust you again.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (3 June 2008):
 What do you mean by 'hook up'?
If it means have sex, then make sure you're using good methods of contraception, which reduce the risk of both pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease. Condoms are widely available and are advisable if this is what you mean.
I am wondering at how your boyfriend broke up with you over your cheating, but he's cheating himself...
Hmmm, I think you might need to be the one who can hold her head high and walk away from this mess...
Again, this is all based on what the term 'hook up' means. If it just means talking then I don't really see a problem, as long as you are taking good care of your physical and emotional health.
Hope this helps!
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