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*ootz
writes: i dont know wat to do this will be my first time and i dont know where to start. please please help. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): your age is between 13-15? hunny you need to go read a book and not think of sex...your obviously not ready if u dont know what to do...when your ready youll know what to do..now if u just wanna be a skank and go have sex be my guest..
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (3 June 2008):
Hi, I wanted you to read one more question and answer thread:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-told-my-mates-wed-had-sex-now.html
Are you prepared for ALL the consequences of having sex yet? This could turn into a big problem for him and you both....
I'd still like to hear a bit more about why you feel you need to do this right now.
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reader, lildeesbg +, writes (3 June 2008):
Before i begin I just want you to realize the decision your making! YOu dont want to be 31 and regret who your first sexual partner was. Okie, well basically i can tell you that you will definitely be very nervous (which is soooo normal). It might hurt as well because obviously this is your first time. However, the actual act is very natural, there is no right or wrong way to start it.Just make you can trust this person because there is nothing better then to look back or share that special moment with someone you can trust and in future years smile at the thought of.~dee
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (3 June 2008):
Hi, the first time can be very scary. Please read this article, then you can post again if you have any questions about it! Good luck!
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-really-ready-for-sex--.html
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reader, Tremor +, writes (3 June 2008):
I'm assuming that when you say 'my first time', you mean sex.
When you are ready to have sex 'where to start' should not be a problem - it tends to come naturally, if a little awkwardly.
The fact that you even have to ask this should be an indicator to you - if you are unsure even in the /slightest/, then leave it.
There's no harm in waiting a while, especially at your age.
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reader, cute angel +, writes (3 June 2008):
well i guess ur too young to start anything sweety!!!!well yeah during this adoloscent period u would want to try new stuff but the wise thing to do is wait until u have the legal age to try everything...
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