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writes:I was at a party and got real drunk. I was barely able to walk, and my friend helped me into the bathroom to pee. He undid my pants, pulled out my penis and held it for me to urinate. I started to get an erection, and after I was done peeing, he stroked me until I ejaculated. I thanked him and he said he better take me home. On the way home, he pulled his penis out, and asked me to jack him off, which I did. He took me to his apartment, and I woke up in the morning naked on the couch. He came out and asked me if I remember what happened that night, which I did. He started talking about being bi, and I started to get an erection again. He then gave me a very nice blowjob.I admit, I loved jacking him off, but don't have any plans to have oral or anal sex with him. I can't wait to jack him off again. I know this is kind of strange, but does it make me gay, or bi?
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reader, eric is a stud +, writes (15 June 2008):
you dont have to be gay or straight or bi just be sexual thats the problem everone thinks they and everyone else has to be put in a group hell if it feels good its mutual and not hurting anyone go for it hand job blow job anal virgina boy girl who cares just be happy you get the chance to have the chance to be sexual and try diff. things never let a chance to have fun and become closer to some one you like male or female. untill you comit yourself to one person experement as much as possible.peace
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reader, misfitschik66  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 you sound bisexual to me but its to early to tell... in a relationship people usually wait to have sex maybe you just arent ready to go that far yet if you like women as well then its obvious that you are bi.. or not.. some people just like to experiment maybe this is exciting for you and its only a faze
good luck you'll know when the time comes
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reader, Blahhhhh +, writes (9 June 2008):
I am only a teenager but I understand much, please read this for some help.
Well, without knowing you personally and knowing if you like girls or boys, I can not really tell. I want to help, If you liked giving him a hand job maybe you should try it again to see if you are tempted to do more, if you like girls as well as guys (by like, I mean attracted) well then it would be safe to say you are bisexual, but if you like guys mainly well you may be gay, maybe you are just curious.
For the hand job and blow job, you are just exploaring differant ways, it does not mean you are gay, nor bi. You mainly have to figure it out yourself. Everyone asks themselves the same question one day or an other.
So don't feel left out. Ok, I bet a million people care for you, try talking to them about it.:) No matter wht just remember to be yourself.
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reader, jay27 +, writes (8 June 2008):
By the very language you use in describing these "events," I suspect that you are homosexual and get some enjoyment out of describing gay encounters. Not that there is anything wrong with that! Are you turned on by women? Are you turned on by men? Only you know the answer. So follow your instincts and know that you have a right to love, whatever your orientation.
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reader, Albion28  +, writes (3 June 2008):
Whether Bi, Gay or otherwise, there's no way to tell from these events. Someone else touched you and you got an erection? Inconclusive. Guy's can get hard from almost any stimulation. He got you off? Inconclusive. You can get off from the stimulation no matter where it comes from. Someone talks about something sex related and you get hard? It's tricky not to. And the blowjob? It's the same as the hand job. If it feels good you can cum no matter who's doing it.
A lot of people think that to be straight you have to find the idea of gay sex disgusting. The fact that you experienced pleasure by being stimulated and it wasn't by a girl really says nothing about your sexuality. Now if you have no sexual interest in girls whatsoever then maybe you're gay. If you like girls but could also see yourself marrying the right guy, maybe you're bi.
Sex is just sex. Maybe you're just not picky about where you get your orgasms.
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reader, I'mheretohelpyou +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Wow, um, I have NO idea but if you are i'd keep him.hehe
SORRY, GOOD LUCK, DUCK!!!!
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reader, Deema +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Well whatever you are, don't worry about it, you're not hurting anyone else and its between 2 consenting adults. Just let the story unfold and see where it leads you, cus the way will be shown to you. It must be very confusing if you never had those feelings before, or did you and you just denied them? Anyways round, its not a crime. Just enjoy whatever you enjoy and like Isaid when the time is right, you will know what is right for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): This happened to me as well, except for the blowjob the next morning. I had previous experiences with circle jerks when I was in my early teens, so it didn't bother me when my friend jacked me.
This obviously concerns you, so you will need to examine your sexuality. I am not going to make a blanket statement about it. You may be gay, bisexual, or just a curious straight. For me, I don't consider myself gay or even bisexual. I love sex, but have no desire for male love in the least. I know this is just my opinion, and I am interested to hear what others think.
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reader, Star_07 +, writes (3 June 2008):
 There is a very good possibility that you could be gay or bisexual or just really curious. It's one thing that you got excited when he touched you but you also got excited when you touched him which seems unlikely if you didn't at least have some curiosity. It is okay to explore your sexuality further if you want to. You determine how far you are willing to go but at some point through your exploration, you probably should figure out if you really are gay/bisexual or just curious.
Stay true to yourself and know who you are!
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