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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend went out on a date with another girl. He says he was angry at me for asking him about cheating on me (someone said they saw him at a bar with another girl). I gave him another chance, but then heard that one of his friends thought there was potential between the two of them because the had went grab a bite to eat together. I tried breaking up with him, but for two week he texted and called saying he was sorry and missed me. He has a lot of good qualities, but I don't know what to do. Please Help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): He confessed that he went on the date with the girl for those who were asking. He lied about it for a week then confessed. Thanks for your help
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reader, Queeny  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Oh! it is very confusing.. most of this 'evidence' is only from other people. you are really the type that listens to what other people say..(though at times you can consider their talk but to a very very minimal percentage) i don know how close this other friends of yours are to trust their judgment more than yours but i think you should have found out more proof by yourself before leaving. this gal could probably be a friend he hangs out with... it is tricky to jump into such conclusions before finding out by yourself. he is coming back after 2weeks to apologise and says he is sorry... could he be saying sorry just so that he makes you feel better, or could he be saying sorry becoz he was actually cheating on you? ask him why he is sorry... if he says its for cheating on you, then there atleast you have found it out by yourself. but if he says sorry jus to make you feel better and secure, then its not a good sign in ur rlshp.. you will need to find out for yourself and rely less on other people... especially if you feel there's no change in the way he feels about you or treat you.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Wait a second... you accused him of cheating... that split you up, then he goes out and ACTUALLY cheats on you? My head is spinning now...
But, before it comes completely off, let me ask this simple question: you didn't actually SEE him out on this date, did you? Or are you getting this as second-hand information? And, while I'm at it, are you sure it wasn't just hooking up with a friend or work associate for dinner or something else innocent?
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