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writes:Over the past couple months I have been hanging out with my brother at our lake house and his friends. Im 29 and they are in their early to mid 40's. I started to fall for "Colin" whom I have hung out w/ 4 times. This past weekend "Colin" invited me up to hang out. With my brother not there he said I could stay with him since it was last minute and didnt have my brothers key to the lake house. Had a GREAT time and I totally fell for him. Many times he had remarked on the tattoo on my foot. I thought he just really liked it. It was totally a great day and into a romantic evening when he began to rub my feet and legs by the fire. Thats when he disclosed his foot fetish. He said its not that he likes all feet only being attracted to feet of women whom he finds immensley attractive. He is genuine and a great friend of my brothers. He then said he likes to be stepped on or forcefuly touched by those feet along with kissing, licking and rubbing them. I would have never thought this of him as he has a very highly respected and reputable job. I know I should judge/discrimiate but I am new to this. We did not have sex, simply kissed and played around. Nothing sexual. However he did kiss my feet and had me press them against my face forcefuly as we were making out. He said that someday he wants me to step on him and his face. Im not sure how to take this. Any advice? Comments?
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reader, Star_Fish +, writes (11 June 2008):
 One thing's for sure, this guy trusts you, or he wouldn't have disclosed his secret to you.But if you're uncomfortable with it then it's early enough in the courtship that you can walk away. If you ARE comfortable with exploring his fetish then I say experiment with little fantasies of your own. Odds are he'll be game with returning the favor if you indulge his.It all comes down to what you're comfortable with.
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reader, Star_Fish +, writes (11 June 2008):
One thing's for sure, this guy trusts you, or he wouldn't have disclosed his secret to you.But if you're uncomfortable with it then it's early enough in the courtship that you can walk away. If you ARE comfortable with exploring his fetish then I say experiment with little fantasies of your own. Odds are he'll be game with returning the favor if you indulge his.It all comes down to what you're comfortable with.
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reader, lildeesbg +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Well its simple, your dating/interested in a man with a sexual fetish. There are different types of fetishes however for him feet are his turn on (which is definitely the less extreme of other types of fetishes). Its a really clear and cut sitauation your either into it or your not and if your not thats fine and it shouldnt be that hard of a parting since your only now getting to know him. However, if you arent sure if your into it, try it out. So at least from this point on you can say "yay or nah" to fetishs.
Here is some food for thought as well...most people dont want to get rid of there fetishs because this is how the become sexual. Who wants to lose their sexual drive? So dont anticipate that there will be room for change. This is him and thats it.
~dee
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI meant to say that i shouldnt judge him. Typos!!!
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