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writes:I've started doing Ann Summers parties as a way to get extra money and ofcourse discount from the products!! I thought my boyfriend would like me doing this as we've always had quite a sexual relationship and have used toys etc before, and I went to a party before with my friend and bought sexy lingerie and a toy and he loved it but when I told him I wanted to do this he started calling me a slut and saying he thought I was better than that but he was wrong.I have bought alot of things with my discount but I have never worn them for him as he has started calling me fat and things when he is drunk or angry so I'm not wanting to show off my body to him at all. We dont even have sex anymore( well i'm lucky if it's once a month)Is there something wrong with me now? I know I've put on weight but everythings just starting to get me down now and even my parents are starting to bully me and call me fat. Anyway I hate these ann summers parties and really want to stop doing them but I have to make £1000 first and this is also depressing me as it's going to take forever.do you think if i split up with my boyfriend it would make me feel any happier as i dont think he wants to be with me anymore. he said to me the other night hes starting to hate me cause evrything i do annoys him.. what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey.. Thanks for all your answers..TwistofFate seems to be bang on lol my boyfriend finds it "slutty" doing what I'm doing although I am only basically a salesperson!!
He has gave me an ultimatum of that or him and I have told him I will NOT choose between them!! after all I'm trying to save this money made from it to possibly think about buying a flat with him and I cant afford to just do my day job!!
Anyway the job'sfine for me so he'll just have to handle it!! It's not like I do it every weekend and there is only women there!!
xx
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 The writing's on the wall, honey. Time to go. If you stay in this relationship you will start believing the crap he's throwing at you. Hold your head high and start walking, you'll never regret it.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 I suggest you leave this guy.
Anyone who you're with who starts to verbally abuse you, you need to leave.
That's the bottom line in ths whole story really -
The name calling says enough and with the hate comment, you can take that as your cue to end it in my opinion.
Find someone who respects you, you're worth more than that.
Take carexx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): I'm sorry Hunny, you must be feeling so down.
Your boyfriend is so abusive.
I don't think you should put up with that.
People calling other people fat really disgusts me. Just a slight comment about someone's weight could turn them Anorexic or bulimic... It's horrible.
I think you'd be better off with out him. You'd feel better about yourself and what you're doing for a living.
Good Luck. x
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