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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I've recently got involved with a guy I know. I knew he had a girlfriend of 3 years, but we couldn't stop flirting with each other. His girlfriend was never around as she was always working, and we grew closer.He said he was going to finish with her which believed. We "got together" and he hadn't heard from her or mentioned her for about a week or so, then on Friday night, he was in my flat when his phone rings - and it was her. I was shocked to discover that he hadn't actually told her it was over - he'd just stopped phoning her. He then sat in front of me and told her that he still loved her, but he couldn't be with her!He has pretty much thrown himself into my life and my interests, and he spends days at a time at mine - staying overnight.What's going on - am I doing the right thing by being with him?
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Mmm! This is hard, because you dont really know where you stand do you?. I will just say that it is possible to love a person and know that they are not good for you. At least he did this in front of you, so he isnt hiding anything. It was bad, him not telling her before hand. But not really unuasual, he is a man after all. There not known for being up-front are they.
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