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writes:Hello, me and my best friend have known each other since we were 8 (im now 20), and he has a sister that is 18 and weve flirted a bunch over the course of 12years but we never acted on them, she always laughs and is more open when im around then any other friendsIm not 100% sure but i think she does kind of like me, but i dont want to ask her because if she dosent that would ruin our friendship along with making mine and my Best friends friendship weird as well. What should i do?
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reader, Ogder  +, writes (23 July 2008):
As with all the other previous comments, don't try flirting or anything like that, if your just interested in the sisters looks or whatever dont bother trying, your going to ruin or really mess up your friends relationship. If its love on the other hand, your friend should respect that. But honestly i situation just happened like that with me and it didnt work out, and now my best friend is pretty much disgusted by what happened. To tell all yous the truth im ashamed that i even flirted with her, and even worse i think i lost my best friend =(
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): If your mate can't accept that his siter can date whoever the hell she wants and you have no obligations to not date her if you like the girl... then he isn't much of a friend.
A true friend, even if it bothered him, wouldn't stand in the way.
Flynn 24
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reader, betou  +, writes (3 June 2008):
i can't tell u that if the both of u really have feeling for each other then ask her out. but i u not really interested then ruin the friendship that u had . plus u don't want to to later regret saying wht if's . i think u should ask her to go to eat but tell her it's not a date while there ask her how would she react in the situation that ur in
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): How seriously interested are you. It seems a shame to spoil such a long friendship, just for a short fling. I'd imagine if it were my sister, I'd be ok as long as the guy was deadly serious and in love. If you don't feel like this, then just continue with the relationship as it is now and leave the sister alone.
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