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writes:hi, am in a relationship with my bf for about 3 years now but all my bf say is he want a child within the next year but i ask him to see my parents which he say he is not yet ready. so am confuse should give birth before he see my parents or is should wait? please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 You should be worried. Not ready to meet your parents but ready have a kid? Don't think so.
A: Having a kid is a status symbol.
B: He wants to tag you.
C: He wants to prove he is man enough to knock you with child.
But most certainly not: He wants to start a family with you.
Whenever a guy starts "I am not ready to ..." what they really mean is "I am will never be ready to ... with YOU".
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reader, nandisa  +, writes (3 June 2008):
Girlfriend if he really loved you and really wanted you to be his special part he will meet your parents and marry you, can you imagine how its like to have kids while not married, trust me i know you dont want to be in that situation, you might love him but stand up to him and tell him the truth, if he is not fully commited to you how come he wants your kid, one day while you have a huge tummy he will leave you for more sexier chicks, dont ruin your life.Stand firm and know your ground.
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