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How can I solve this problem without leaving him?

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Question - (1 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2008)
A female Lebanon age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years after 5 years we broke up and then i found out that he was lying and cheating on me all that time so i had a relation with another guy and we had sex one time. after 1 year i got back to my ex-boyfriend and i told him that i had sex with another guy so he went crazy and since then he treated me so bad. he humiliated me, didn't trust me and didn't appreciate me and he doesn't see that he is wrong he thinks that he is always right and has all the right to treat me this way even though he was cheating on me for 5 years and i cant leave him because i love him so much how can i solve this problem without leaving him what should i do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008):

Im sorry but i really don't see how this relationship could get any better. you should also get out of this relationship before he really hurts you. there are plenty of fish in the sea. I wish you the best of luck

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (1 December 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntI'm sorry that you are in love with someone who treats you badly. There is only one person that you can change in this relationship. You can only change yourself. And I would change myself the hell out of there. He isn't treating you with any respect at all, and staying with him only means giving up your own self respect. I'd leave before you wind up having kids together and you are stuck with him as the father. Sorry to be harsh, but Hunnie, you know that you deserve better, and this is only going to get worse.

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