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writes:Hi there, I was in a relationship which lasted for 2 months, as time went by I realised that he is not what I wanted (being with him), so I decided to call it off, when I told him my decision he was very absent confused, fustrated and said that if I don't want to be with him he will die. He loves me very much, the thing is I feel very bad with my decision, I don't want to hurt him, what should I do, should I go back just to make him happy? Reply to this Question
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reader, TimLSY  +, writes (1 December 2008):
I think otherwise. you've only known the guy for two months, i think he's exaggerating but it seems like you're unsure too...you don't know him enough yet to see where it might go. if this guy in fact does love you enough, why not see where it goes a bit more? unless you really feel nothing for him, in which case I don't think you would even be considering whether you should go back to make him happy, as you wouldn't even be thinking about whether you have such a responsibility after having known him for only 2 months (I'd have just walked away if someone acted like this when I barely know him).
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (1 December 2008):
Yes you should go and be a prisoner in a relationship that you don't want, have sex and fake it because you don't like him in that way, and waste your life and miss your chance on finding real love.
Come on!!!
If you think he's at risk of harming himself, call his family or the police.
If you don't want to be with him then you shouldn't be, and you shouldn't let him blackmail you back into it either.
Good Luck!! xx
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