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I don't want to do certain things, how do I get him to understand?

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Question - (1 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2008)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend wants to do more than kissing, not sex but other things .. we did it once before but ever since we haven't because of me, he thinks that i dont like him that much because we dont do stuff but its not that im just dont want to he doesnt seem to understand?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008):

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Thanks for the responses really helpful :D

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A male reader, Austinalive United States +, writes (1 December 2008):

This is very important: you have taken your desicions, tell him. If he doesn't accept'em then he doesn't really love you, and maybe he'll push you by telling you to break up. If he loves you then it won't be a problem (but it also could be false, just to make you think he's reliable)

Anyway, don't change your mind just for somebody that does'n respect you.

And the best way to tell him is straight, strong, not hesitating

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A female reader, babyminow United States +, writes (1 December 2008):

babyminow agony auntif you dont want to do it, then you dont have to. just talk to him. tell him you do like it, but you are just not comfortable doing more right now.

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