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I'm so confused about my two guys...

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Question - (1 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2008)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

A while ago I met this guy and we got together and I fell very very deeply in love with him. So deeply that I knew I wanted to spend my life with him. But I am young and I didn't want to be held down yet so I broke up with him in the intention of getting back together one day.

Then I met another, who was a great guy that I really liked and he fell in love with me but not vice versa. Anyway, he went away for 4 months and while he was gone we had decided to break up. During the time he was away, me and male #1 got back together but then that stopped too because he was just seeming a bit unsure about when guy #2 came back. #2 just came back and in the blink of an eye I have somehow got myself back together with him.

I am really confused because I love the other one so much but for some reason just can't stay with him. Now #1 is looking for another girlfriend and I am really worried(which I know is hypocritical). The whole time I was with #2 the first time, I always loved #1 more and knew that I would go back to him but I am not sure that if #1 gets another girlfriend he will be thinking the same thing.

What do I do? I feel like such a bitch and I have noone I can talk to about it and I really do not know what to do.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (1 December 2008):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntGet back with guy number one and stop playing with guy number two's heart.

Question: Are you sure that you are really in love with guy number one? I ask this because, why would u feel tied down to someone you love?

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