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writes:I've been with my girlfirend for all most 2 years now but she never has the time of day for me, whenever I try to get to see her she always "says" she working but I ask all the time every day and she still says they ask them first when one day I asked weeks in advance and she still says she's working. I have seen her a hand full of times spaced out, we are now in our summer holidays and I do not think I'm going back to school and I'll never see her because she will not take a day off to see me or put off her shopping. Does she love me?? She says she does but then if she really did wouldn't she do anything to be with me? I gave up everything that woould keep us apart and lost some very very close friends and even my ordination and in return I get nothing, what do I do? I've tried and tried to get through to her but it's like talking to a brick wall, last time I saw her was 3 weeks ago, why is she treating me like this? What do I do? I really do love her and want to be with her but I don't want to be with some one who doesn't love me or doesn't want to be with me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (1 December 2008):
I think you know what to do.
She is choosing not to make time to be with you so I think you need to end this.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, samsmommy  +, writes (1 December 2008):
 Kind of sounds like maybe she wants to break up with you but she doesn't know how or she doesn't want to have to tell you she doesn't love you anymore. It's unlikely that she loves you but won't make any kind of effort to see you in a 3 week period. Even if she is SO busy, you could go w/ her while she ran errands or something, I think if she still wanted to date you she would make time for you, even if it wasn't an official "date". Since she hasn't, I would just let it go and move on. Sorry.
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