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writes: I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me 4 times (1 of them was my best friend) and he didn't tell me about any of them. I found out from everyone else. I'm in love with him and don't want to let him go but hes betrayed me and hurt me. How do I deal with this?
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reader, katatonik +, writes (2 December 2008):
I'm sorry to hear that. It doesn't sound like a one-time thing or something that he is remorseful about. You only found out because someone else told you, and I'm sure he would gladly go on deceiving you about this if he could. The fact that he cheated on you with your best friend should be the last straw for you. Time to drop him like a hot potato, and find a new best friend while you're at it. Good luck =]
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reader, Ashley245 +, writes (1 December 2008):
Well I would drop him like a bomb..honestly. You love him and if he loved you back he wouldnt do something to hurt the relationship.. It's gonna hurt to leave him but there is better guys who will treat you better and with respect. Who wouldnt even look at girls in that way.
I'd say talk to him about ,and he'll probly give you a bunch of bullcrap..but it's worth a try..if you want to.
Good luck ^-^
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