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male
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30-35,
*aewood
writes: There is a girl i love who is my friend but is very flirty and it causes me great sorrow because she doesn't flirt with me only with other boys. How do i break up with her because i am tired of the pain she is causing me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): Oh, and to add, if you want to leave her just distance yourself from her slowly, doesn't mean you can't still talk to her now and then, just start seeing each other less and have other things to do.
If you suddenly come out and say you want to 'break this friendship' it'll be taking things a little too over the top as she doesn't seem to know how you feel about her and would be a at a loss because she considered you a friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): That's the problem there, she thinks of you only as a friend. For whatever reasons she may not see you as B/F material - or well 'guy' enough to see you in any other light. Girls tend to do that a lot.
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reader, Ashley245 +, writes (1 December 2008):
Of course it's gonna cause you great pain, you love her...she kinda let you down, or just got your hopes up and then let you down. Well, go face to face with her, go over to her house or she go to yours. Im not sure if you still care for her but if so, ask why? and ask her if she cares for you as much as you do?
If you just want to drop her like a bomb...talk to her about everything ..tell her that it's not gonna work becuase of (blah blah blah)...or don't tell her a reason if she loves you back she wouldnt do something to jepredize the relationship!
Good luck ^-^
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