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female
age
41-50,
*ali-Mah
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 2 year. He's great, the relationship is great, and we have our problems like everyone else. But over the last year he's become less... affectionate, for lack of better word. He'll hug me and all when I ask him. I know its a bit of a guy thing. But here is my biggest problem. He wont kiss me. He will give me a lip kiss or whatever but when it comes to even a remotely passionate kiss, he just simply wont do it. He use to, and he use to do it really good (made me melt at least). When I asked him he would say, "I don't want to breathe on you". I always tell him how much I like it when he kisses me and how much it makes me happy when I get that attention, but it does no good. I eventually tried asking him if something was wrong. He wouldn't ever tell me what was wrong, but that something was. And one day I asked him if he stopped kissing me because he thinks he's a bad kisser, he blushed and turned away from me and wouldn't say anything for a while, and sometimes when I bring it up again, he does the same thing. What my question today is: Is there a way I can give him more confidence to where he will want to kiss me again. Or if there is any other advice that can help me to help him/get him to want to at least try kissing me. I know its not a big deal to some people, and me and him do have a deeper relationship than just sex. We live together and all, sleep in separate beds most of the time (one bed is too small for both of us, and the other one hurts his back (mine too sometimes)). Kissing has always been something I really enjoy, and want to enjoy again. Dear Cupid... help me.
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reader, Aunt Nicky  +, writes (1 December 2008):
 if he used to kiss you passionately there could be a few reasons why he is not now. He could be paranoid he has bad breath or he might feel that sensual kissing always leads to sex, maybe he doesn't want it as much as you. Or worst scenario he is just not as into you as he once was....Hope this helps
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