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writes:my boyfriend is 16 but i have discussed that with him he just turned 16 though nd. he keeps asking me for sex nd. iht'z not apart of my religion(christianity)i know im going to wait no matter what no one says but what do i need to do to make him shut up Reply to this Question
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reader, littlemissalf123 +, writes (2 December 2008):
 I would tell you to explain to him, but it would probably be a waist of your time. Simply tell him in plain English: I HAVE NO DESIRE WHAT SO EEEVVVEEERRR TO BE YOUR SEMEN DUMP! Now if that doesn't get him just kick him to the curb. A guy that actually respected you and is concerned about you wouldn't be in such a rush to have yo take part in act that could devastate your future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): Don't let anyone "bully" you or talk you into having sex if you are not ready. If he does not understand and does not want to accept the word NO, let him go.
You are sure to find somebody who will.
If he really loves you, he wil respect your wish and not try and convince you to have sex.Don't let him convince you with the old old story of "if you love me you will do it for me", that is the oldest trick in the book that guys have tried for centureis to get sex with girls.
Talk to him and explain to him how you feel.Tell him to accept and respect your feelings and wish in this regard. If not, he obviously does not care enough for you and just wants to get into your pants. Tell him that if that is the case he must stop wasting his time, it is not going to happen and wish him well on his way out.
You will find someone else that will value you, love you and respect your wish in this regard.
Good luck.
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reader, squiggle  +, writes (1 December 2008):
Maybe the first answerer to this question didn't read your age!!! 10-12 - I'm sorry but what do you expect to come of a relationship with someone so much older. Are you waiting til your sixteen - by which point he will be 20-22 or til you're 18 when he'll be 22-24 - if he's this eager now he won't want to wait - he has his life and obviously isn't too into religion. What if you want to wait til marriage then you'll just have your heart broken. Get on with your life and with school - there'll be plenty of time to meet a nice boy who shares your beliefs. Sorry if this was harsh but your ages just arent right to last the distance. Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): First off let me start off by saying I am so glad your are going to wait!!! You need to simply let him know that If he loves you and wants to be with you then he will wait. If he is not willing to wait for you, he's not worth it! I was with a guy who mentioned sex to me, and I simply said that I'm not ready right now. He respected my wishes and we remained seeing each other 8 months later it happened and We are still together to this day and that was 10 years ago =) good luck
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