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30-35,
*asierToFallThanToForget
writes: Me and my Ex dated for a while before i broke up with him because he was flirting with other girls and i could tell he had a thing for my best friend (who he is also friends with and has been for about 5 years.) I still had a thing for him but i could tell he liked her and she liked him and i didnt want to be nobodys second choice. So i told them both to stop denying it and just admit that they like each other which they did. Now they are dating each other and they are both really good friends of mine which means i spend alot of time with them and i have to watch them be all couply with each other and listen to my friend talk about him and how amazing he is. However i still really like him and its killing me listen to them talk about how happy they are. I just want to punch something when ever they do. So my question is how can i learn to deal with it and get over my ex? I am so sick of wanting to punch something or start crying when ever i see them together......
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): Ouch, it must be very difficult for you. It will take time but believe me it will get better. I think you should concentrate on finding somebody else to spent your time with and once you have a new boyfriend you will not be concerned about those two. Hope you find someone else soon and start having fun again.
Good luck.
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