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anonymous
writes:I like this girl a lot. When I turn 19 we are planing to have sex, she has done it with one guy who wasn't that good and I am still a virgin so I'd like to know how can I make sure I'm good at it for her plus I'm also a bigger guy and she is a slender girl so I don't want to hurt her, anyone got any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): Depending on how long you've been dating and how comfortable you both are with each other will determine what you can do.
I would suggest that she goes on top, so that she doesn't feel so intimidated by your size. Being on the bottom for a guy isn't a bad thing if it's your first try. You want your girlfriend to be happy.
Do some fun foreplay. Kiss her neck and back. She'll love it. Let her play around a bit and don't jump into it too quickly. Take it slow for the firs bit and then once you think you've got the hang of it, take it away!
As far as positions go, do a little bit of research first. I would recommend the lotus, as it is a good first position and a satisfying one. If you don't like that one, missionary is always good. Have a happy birthday ^_^
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reader, Ashley245 +, writes (1 December 2008):
Well,make sure she is the one you really want to loose your virginity with. Ask her about it, be comfortable. Ask her what she would want.. candle light, slow music playing. Ask her what she has always wanted. And im sure you won't hurt her , no matter what you kinda have to hold yourself up anyways.
I hope it's memorable!
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