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26-29,
*olleenlawrynn
writes:Kind of a long story, but i'll tell it anyways. I broke up with my boyfriend because I thought i didn't like him anymore. I hated being around him at school and he just bugged me, so i knew i didn't like him. I b/u with him shortly after somewhat ignoring him some days and barley talking this happened tuesday]that following thursday, me and my friend were talking and she said she'd talk to my ex for me and tell him i still liked him, because i did. she did and he liked me back so on friday, he gave me a note that said, someone told me you still liked me and i replied that is true. we kept talking and agreed to go back out, but that night at our football game, he was all over this girl in my homeroom class. To make a long story shorter, he didn't go back out with me, pretty much leading me on, went out with the girl, and for what? he fingered her:( and broke up with her after maybe two weeks of dating. he just started talking to me again and i think he still likes me because he always stares at me and tries to make me laugh. In the meantime while he was having fun with the girl, i met a new kid, and i like this kid A LOT. more than my ex, but the problem is i still like my ex, but i like this new kid, yet he lives in nevada. i would go back out with my ex, but i don't want to hurt new kid. If i said no to my ex if he asked me out, things would be very awkward, and to tell the truth, i miss going out with my ex. me and him were like peas in a pod. but my other guy is amazing in everyway:( what should i do?
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reader, Bubblegum  +, writes (1 December 2008):
 Your ex doesnt sound as if he cares about the way you feel, or that other girl to be honest. If you get back with him your just going to get hurt again. Try this new kid, if you like him a lot you should go for it. And who knows? You might get over your ex. But honestly, dont worry too much about your ex, us girls are still young and theres a bunch of guys just waiting to get their hands on us.
Much love
Bubblegum xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): Ignore that last answer it was a bit unsympathetic and unrealistic. Your ex sounds like a bit of a knob, he annoyed you then led you on and couldn't hold together this other relationship. How far away is Nevada from where you live? Because I wouldn't advise a long distance relationship, they can be very difficult =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): concentrate on your school work and don't get involved with people at this age.
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