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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Iv been with my boyfriend for nearly two years. Before we got together i had a thing for one of his friends and his friend liked me. About 6 month ago my boyfriends friend told me he liked me and we ended up kissing. This was on a night out. Then on several other nights out we have ended up kissing. A few weeks back we ended up sleeping together. My boyfriend found out and ever since this, this other lad hasnt spoken to me. Iv been told that he really likes me and every night im out he tries to make contact as this is the only time we ever see each other. We used to text each other but we lost each others numbers. I'm so confused. im still with my boyfriend but i dont know whether i want to be with him or the other lad. i know this lad likes me too but he wont even speak to me now. does this mean he doesnt like me anymore?
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reader, VietLe  +, writes (1 December 2008):
I'm sorry but I will be harsh...What is your point girl? Do you even think about your bf? You are worried about your "backup" guy instead of worrying about ur relationship? Dont you think what you do is very unfair for you bf? I mean, come on, it is not hard to imagine how would you feel if: you have a great boyfriend, you love him, then one of your girl friend likes him and your bf and she have secret dates, they kiss, they sleep with each other, and all your bf is concerned about is the other girl, not you!How would you feel? Man, if you dont feel like mature enough to be in a relationship then dont have any. The wrong thing here is not that you have mixed feelings nor you are torn between two guys, of course we are human and we have to deal with such dilemmas, it is wrong because of the way you are dealing with that...You are with your bf but still thinking about the other one? And you are even worried that he might no longer have feelings for you? How does it suppose to help your relationship?!!! What positive thing can it bring to you and your bf? Arent you selfish and unfaithful? Think about it girl!
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