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writes:I am 16 and unsure what to consider myself. I pretty much watch exclusively gay porn, but women occasionally attract me. I feel an attraction to men and not to women in public. I would love to just call myself gay, but for some reason I am unsure. I am doubting my attractions. Does anyone have any advice?
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reader, philipgifts +, writes (2 March 2009):
 There are other words people may call you especially being 16 in high school.The up side is all the guys will know your gay,and some will wont to go steddy with you.But you'll have those guys who are not gay and wont feel comfortable around you in the locker rm. and they may not be kind with there word not all of them just two or three if your lucky none of them will say nothing to you.Me personly I wouldent want to be known as the gay kid thats just me.Most of the people wont judge you and hopefully most of you class is secretly bi,but theres a small chance of that being the case.
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reader, Ashley245 +, writes (1 December 2008):
Im sure it's nothing to worry about, you could be well on your way to being gay...people shouldn't label i see nothing wrong at all with it. I mean i know guys that judge other guys and are completely comfortable with thier attractions. people shouldn't label and if it is your friends they shouldn't, sure they may feel a bit uncomfortable. You could be bi. Just wait it could be a phase.
Good luck ^-^
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (1 December 2008):
You are only 16, and you have attractions to both sexes.
This could mean you are bi, or it could mean you are on the way to being gay, or it could be a phase and you could marry a lovely girl one day.
No one can tell the future so I wouldn't rush into labelling yourself.
Call yourself bi if you want a label but personally I hate being labelled and put into a box so why not just enjoy the ride?
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (1 December 2008):
 I would consider who you have had crushes on and emotional attachments to in your past. That should give you a clearer picture of your feelings. I'm sure if you ask yourself this, a clear list will pop up in your head, and being honest with yourself will help you sort it out and head in the right direction. XXX
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